Watchfulness meditation is rarely difficult because of discipline or patience; the real difficulty begins much earlier, in the quiet expectations people bring with them, which is the major mistake they make even before they sit down. Some expect immediate silence. Others hope meditation will erase stress, stop anxious thoughts, or deliver a profound experience within a few sessions. When those expectations aren't met, they quietly decide they must be doing something wrong. Ir

Language has a quiet way of blurring important differences. We say hearing and listening as though they are the same, even though one simply happens while the other requires attention. In much the same way, the words mindfulness and watchfulness are often used interchangeably in conversations about meditation. Most people assume they describe the same practice with different names. They don't. They certainly overlap, and both lead toward greater awareness, but they begin from