Watchfulness meditation is rarely difficult because of discipline or patience; the real difficulty begins much earlier, in the quiet expectations people bring with them, which is the major mistake they make even before they sit down. Some expect immediate silence. Others hope meditation will erase stress, stop anxious thoughts, or deliver a profound experience within a few sessions. When those expectations aren't met, they quietly decide they must be doing something wrong. Ir

From the moment you wake up, your mind is already talking. It reminds you of yesterday’s mistakes, plans tomorrow’s meetings, replays old conversations, and quietly comments on almost everything you experience. Most of the time, this inner narration happens so automatically that you don’t even notice it. The surprising part is not that the mind keeps talking. The surprising part is that we believe it. A single thought appears, “I’m not good enough.” Another follows, “What if